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Social Networking For Women – Braveheart Women Review

Many social networking sites have popped up recently. One in particular that caught my attention is Braveheart Women.

Braveheart Women is the creation of Dr. Ellie Drake. Her vision is to bring together women to support each other in creating purpose, passion and prosperity. The purpose of this site is to provide social networking for woman with a purpose. Ellie’s goal is to empower you to be empowered and to inspire you to be inspired. What distinguishes this site from all the others I participate in is that it regularly features interviews with a host of celebrity women.

Braveheart TV

Ellie and her panel regularly interview women who are making a difference in their fields. Her guests include celebrities, businesswomen, entrepreneurs and other women who have valuable insights and experiences to share with other women. I’ve seen interviews with Dr. Maya Angelu, Mary Ellen Tribby, Mariel Hemingway, Morgan Fairchild, Lindsay Wagner, Dr. Judith Orloff, Forbes Riley, Gloria Loring, Lisa Nichols and Estelle Harris, to name a few. The cool thing is that these interviews are not fluff. They’re really good. I come away from each one feeling inspired. Ellie digs right down into the heart and soul of what makes these women tick.

Forum Discussions

When I first joined as a free member a little over a year ago, I introduced myself on the discussion forum and began reading some of the other introductions. I saw a post by a marketing mentor and picked up the phone and called her, figuring I would get her machine and leave a message. She picked up the phone, and we made a great connection. I started working with her as a client, and within the last year, I wrote three ebooks and developed a brand new website to connect with other women in midlife looking to improve their health. You never know. Since then, I have watched Ellie’s interviews often and continue to be inspired each and every time.

RISE – The Braveheart Women Annual Event

Braveheart Women hosts an annual live networking event. This year’s event is in October in Beverly Hills. I did not go last year. I may be able to attend this year. It looks like they have a great lineup of empowered, inspired women. I was surprised to see to how inexpensive it is. I hope my schedule supports my attending. I’d love to bring my daughter.

The Differences Between Assertive and Pushy Networking

To obtain success in business networking, an attitude of pro-activity must be assumed. Sitting idle and awaiting connections and opportunities to come to you is out of the question. It is necessary to plan your attack and follow through with your plan in order to achieve your goals.

Not only is it important to get out and proactively engage in meeting new people but it is equally important to do it correctly without intimidating or offending anyone. Keeping things calm and cheerful can go a long way and if you brand yourself as a friendly, cheerful, accommodating individual, people will never purposely avoid you. This takes some practice and is a learned skill. There is a right and wrong way to do anything. We of course want to focus on the correct behaviors.

In the world of business networking, being known as “Pushy” is a negative. However, people do respect the person who is assertive and takes command in a cooperative manner. Below, are a few examples to demonstrate my point;

Setting up a meeting.

Let’s say you have had an initial encounter with a new contact. You would like to set up a meeting in person to discuss a partnership or a business proposal. You call the individual and talk briefly about setting up a meeting and they reluctantly agree but suggest speaking later to set up a definite date.

Pushy:

You call the person and only receive voice mail. So, you leave a message every day for two weeks with no response. You have also sent an e-mail every day, equally with no response. Frustrated, you begin to leave messages that are implying, in not so many words, that he/she has been rude and should respond if they know what’s good for them.

Assertive:

You call and leave a message on their voice mail asking for a return call. You also send e-mail the same day requesting a response. This is on a Monday morning.

You don’t get a response all week. On Friday, just before the weekend, you leave a voice mail and write an e-mail wishing them a happy weekend and requesting a response on Monday or as soon as possible. Monday comes, then Tuesday, then Wednesday.

On Wednesday afternoon, just before you go home for the evening, you leave a voice mail and send an e-mail that expresses your concern for their personal safety and that if you don’t hear back from them by the end of the week, you will have to assume that they are not interested and you will move on. You can also suggest that it’s okay to keep the lines of communication open and to contact you at any time.

As you can see above, the assertive behavior assumes professionalism, concern, and confidence. It lets an individual know that you are not desperate to connect but are interested in doing business that will lead to something mutually productive.

Your Business Networking Make-Over

You have seen this before covering many different subjects. Makeovers are a hot topic. You’re probably familiar with fashion makeovers, interior design/home makeovers, and of course, automobile makeovers.

A person usually agrees to let the team of professionals revive something that is old, outdated, or worn out. Isn’t this a wonderful thing? The upgrade is usually a welcome and refreshing improvement to what was. Have you ever considered a business networking makeover?

Think about it, the best way to make career advancements is not hard work alone. Favorable breaks come to those who are well connected. This is not a “rocket science” concept. Keeping this in mind, if your business network isn’t filled with individuals who can help you realize your goals, isn’t it time for a makeover?

Typically, by the time a person agrees to having a makeover, they have reached a serious degrading point. Isn’t it true that when a person usually gets a fashion makeover, for example, whoever initiated the process was just plain fed up with the prior situation?

Many times it’s because the person in question, simply got too comfortable with their set up. They’ve gotten so busy or distracted with life, that they fail to see other options.

It’s like the old saying “You can’t see the forest for the trees”. When this happens, it’s only a stronger indication that change is necessary. It’s a sign that while comfort is painless, it is also the death of progress.

Is this what has happened to your network of colleagues? Did you, once upon a time, begin building a strong network of “hopefuls” and stop at some point? Did you become rather comfortable with your current network of contacts and failed to partner with those who could have contributed to your success?

If any of the above fits you, it’s about that time for a new beginning. It’s time to remove the thick dust from the current contacts that are ready and willing to partner with you towards your ultimate triumph.

How to Generate Interest When Networking

Being truly interesting is a area of subjectivity. While some things are interesting to a many people, a few things can be interesting to the masses. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. In fact, individual opinions are what make us unique. When looking to be interesting to a target market, different rules begin to apply. In this example, one only has to be interesting to a chosen few and can narrow down his or her interesting attributes or features.

From a marketing standpoint, we know that once interest is generated, a lot of positive things can happen. Your product or service can be exploited and then sold to interested parties. This is, of course, the objective of most marketing campaigns. When it comes to self marketing, there are only subtle differences- if there are any differences at all.

When you are out networking for business, self marketing is in full effect. You are meeting new contacts and making connections with the objective of leaving a positive brand/image in their minds. When they leave from your presence and go back into their lives, you must ask; what about me or my firm, have they taken with them?

Have you given them a reason to give you a second thought after departing? Have you in any way, stood out from the other hundreds of people that they have met recently? These questions don’t have to be left to a coin toss. Here are a few suggestions to help you generate interest when networking;

First, after the initial introductions are done, you should lead the conversation by asking questions that help you to better understand who you’re talking to. Of course, you don’t want to ask questions that would offend anyone but you can ask questions that cause the person to talk about their immediate needs.

Once a person is talking about their immediate needs and you are listening attentively, this causes rapport to begin to develop. If you’re looking to generate interest, simple rapport is not enough. You must speak to the person as if you are their team member or even fan and want them to succeed. So, speaking supportively to a person you hardly even know does help to generate their interest.

You can also use a similar line of questioning to determine what they do in their spare time outside of work and what they are passionate about.

A brutally simple segway for entering this area of conversation is to simply say, “So what do you do when you’re not working?” Some people may find this question to be intrusive or unprofessional but it’s all in your tone.

When you have an answer to this question, you can begin a simple conversation about it. How interesting will a person find you if they recall having a conversation about their favorite hobby? Chances are, you’ll have been found to be very interesting. Why? Because 95% of the people that they have spoken to never asked those questions.

Try the suggestions given above and put your positive brand into people’s minds. Don’t forget to follow up and keep in touch. If you do, you will find that it will take less effort in setting up meetings or gaining referrals.

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Business Networking For Entrepreneurs – 7 Tips For Success

Is there anyone else out there who can relate to this scenario? You arrive a little later than you anticipated for the networking event. If you are brave you to start to mingle with some of the other “suspects”. You may even be unlucky enough to meet the groups life coach, who typically is a bored housewife fully equipped with her business cards and her two day diploma. She barely keeps eye contact with you as she is already on the lookout for her next victim to pounce on, she assures you that she has had a wonderful conversation with you and insists on exchanging business cards….aaarrrrggghhhhhhhhhh. Deep breath, it was only a nightmare!

But seriously though, I used to attend all sorts of business events where networking was high on the list of priorities and there would be these types of characters and more besides that would make my skin crawl.

Now however I have changed myself and practice some simple rules to maintain my sanity and have a safer car journey home:

1) Have fun – the most important rule for me

2) Use the “pay it forward” networking principle – taken from the film of the same name, I come to events never to get business but to see who I can help today

3) Choose wisely the events I attend – my time is precious and I don’t attend breakfast events that some of the big business networking organisations provide where the local mechanic and decorator get all the referrals, for my type of business that’s a complete waste of time

4) Only ask for business cards from people I can genuinely help

5) Throw away business cards I didn’t ask for

6) Only give my card to people who ask for it

7) Have fun – yeah I know I said that earlier but hey it’s important

Social Networking – A Great Way to Build Networks

Build networks; know others who can help your business grow

The business arena today is so competitive that without networks, you have very slim chances of ever making it. People want to get to know each other because they know that knowing people is the only way to create a business. This has been forced largely by the internet – it allows all sorts of people to interact and these interactions will result in different resources and talents being found.

Networks will usually be formed from the small initial group almost virally. If a company with a great product and a catchy marketing messages reaches out to a small group, this group will reach out to others by sharing a link. The link keeps moving on and on, and as it moves on, you find more and more people visiting your website, joining your blog, joining your online club and just keeping it going. These networks are where you will get ideas, where you will source for talent and even new markets.

As all this is happening, your product is selling too. You are getting to know people who either need your product or who know people who do. There is almost no better way for a business to grow, because its low cost and one some level, you can call it low maintenance. All you have to do is stay engaged with your networks for an hour or 2 every day and the results start to trickle in.

If you are going to use social marketing, make sure that you don’t come across as a viral message. Some viral messages get away with it, but not all. It could kill your business if each time someone receives an email about your company, they treat it as spam.

How to Make Money From Social Networking Sites – For Beginners

Social Media has gained strong reputation as a fertile soil for many beginners to plow in, and try their hands on making money. Apart from the fact that it is free to join social media sites, beginners find it at home within the environment.

That is so true because ‘social’ here means community.

They find it is easy to spend hours, communicating and interacting with like-minded people, and with this kind of ambiance, making a recommendation and suggestion about something of value added comes naturally. And the message is better accepted too since it comes from friend whom they trust. But more often than not, that trust is easily broken, and many choose to stay away from social media networks because they had to put up with too much ads when all they want to do in the first place is to interact.

Here are a few quick tips for beginners who want to do the right things when using social networking to make money online:

1) Choose the right networks.

Spend some times to do background research to find which networks will likely to give you the best return on effort. There are a few popular networking but which one is likely to harbor the highest number of your targeted crowd? Time spent doing this is all worth it.

2) Create a compelling profile.

In networking, your profile is like your ticket. A good profile could mean high acceptance or frequent rejection. It is wise to come up with a profile that is memorable, easy to relate to and catchy.

3) Listen.

Before starting to recommend people with what you have, it is best to familiarized yourself with the crowd first. Make yourself popular or liked, and start some sort of contribution to the community. Let them know that you are there to offer them something valuable and not just pitching products.

4) Engage.

Once you have a good grasp about the community in whole; their desire, aspiration and dreams, then, and only then, you can start leading them towards your offer. Make sure you this tactfully and with respect. Just pitching an offer straight away would not cut it.

Is Social Networking For Business a Waste of Time?

By now, most business owners have been told that they need to not only utilize search engine marketing, but also leverage the power of social networking for their business as well. They’ve been told that establishing a social media presence online for their business will lead to greater brand awareness, more leads and increased profits. But many business owners are still skeptical, mostly because they don’t truly understand how social networking works. Naturally, this leads them to wonder whether or not social networking is really just a waste of time and money. Well, is it?

The answer is yes, and no.

Social networking is a complete waste of time for your business if you don’t have a coordinated social media marketing strategy in place. Why? Because using that strategy to promote your business isn’t like placing an ad in the yellow pages, the newspaper or on the radio where you just sit back and wait for the calls to come in.

In order to achieve a worthwhile return on investment for your time, your campaigns need to be well planned, and most importantly, they need to be consistent. Just like search engine marketing (SEM) campaigns, social networking requires on-going, consistent effort to produce results. Simply creating an account for your business on a platform such as Facebook and making an occasional post, or a tweet on Twitter or video on You Tube isn’t enough.

Now, many business owners will read that statement “on-going, consistent effort” and cringe, because it means more expenses. But this is entirely the wrong attitude to take. Social networking is one of the most cost effective ways to promote a business, period. No other form of advertising allows your business to connect with such a huge audience of targeted prospects. Even if you decide to hire an expert SEO company that specializes in social media to manage your social networking campaigns, the return on investment will far outweigh any expenses, especially when compared to traditional forms of advertising.

There’s a famous saying in business, “Go where the money is” and today the money is in social networking. No matter what your market is, your audience is out there, right now and they are actively engaged on social media sites. That’s where they hang out. So if you want to connect with them, and introduce them to your brand, your products or your services, that’s where you need to be.

Choosing Wireless Networking Equipment

When it’s about picking the right wireless connection, the possibilities are numerous. Here is a quick list of what you will need:

  • Access point. It is also called base station. An AP is actually a switchboard that can connect wireless devices on the network to each other and to the rest of the network. It’s necessary to have one of these. The prices range from $100 to $300. The places from which you can buy an AP may be the marketplace, including Apple, D-Link, Linksys, NETGEAR and Siemens/Efficient Networks.
  • Usually, an AP comes with a bunch of features like:
    1. Network hub or switch: This hub connects wired PCs to the network. A switch is still a hub, but a smarter one. It can speed up the network traffic.
    2. DHCP (Dynamic Host Configuration Protocol). In order to communicate within a network, computers need some addresses. A DHCP assigns network addresses for every computer connected.
    3. Network router. In case you want to share a single Internet connection with other computers, you need a router. It assures your communication while it is connected to the Internet through a broadband modem.
    4. Print server. Instead of using a printer for every computer, you can get a print server and connect it directly to the network.
    5. CF card. It is very useful when you have a pocket PC or other palm-sized computers in your network. A Compact Flash is a smaller than a PC Card adapter and helps you to connect these two types of computers.

A home network uses a communication method (protocol) known as Ethernet. Two components of your computer do not use the same method of communication. But the computers that are under a network must translate between their internal communication protocol and Ethernet. The device that assures this intercourse is called network interface adapter. Most of them cost $50. But the newest computers come with one of those at no price. There are also wireless network interface adapters. Price ranges between $50 and $150.

Networking – Top Tips to Improve Your Networking Skills

In the tough economic climate of today, networking is probably an even more important marketing tool than it has ever been before. The wider your network, the more likely you will have contacts in businesses and organisations that are less affected by the general slow-down in consumer spending. People have always bought “people” people. We all like to know who we are dealing with, what they are like, how they can help us and whether we trust them.

It is therefore very important to be confident in our ability to quickly build relationships, but unfortunately, many people find networking a truly uncomfortable experience. However, our confidence and ultimately our success at networking can be dramatically improved by adopting a few simple techniques.

Here are ten top tips that will help you out when networking face to face:

1) Have your own 30 second advert. When someone asks you ‘so what do you do?’ be prepared with a short answer. Most people will give you one minute to introduce what you do so make it count!

2) Go to the most appropriate event. It may sound obvious, but if you work for an accountancy firm providing tax and audit advice to local businesses, then don’t attend a national meeting of accounting firms. Vice versa, if you want business from large organisations, then don’t attend a local event targeted at SME’s.

3) Set yourself some targets. Think about the meeting before hand. How many people would you like to meet and from which types of organisations? What information do you hope to gain? Remember, preparation and planning will increase your chance of success.

4) Don’t sell – just network. The purpose of networking is to spend time with other people, to get to know them, and to find out some information that can be followed up later on. Save the sales pitch for another time.

5) Stay focussed. Remember you are networking to help to build your business further, so pay attention to the people you meet and to what they say.

6) Don’t act as if you are desperate for business. People generally like to talk to interesting, upbeat and confident people. You certainly won’t attract any new business if you act as though you are desperate.

7) Be interesting. People like to talk with interesting people so do some homework. Plan a couple of topics that you can bring up and that you will enjoy discussing.

8) Ask plenty of questions. In addition, have a number of conversation ‘openers’ pre-prepared. People love to talk about themselves so ask them what they like to do when they are not at work, what the most amazing place they have ever visited is or simply their favourite pizza topping!

9) Listen, listen and listen again. Pay attention to what people are telling you, and search for problems that you can solve. Follow up with your solution in business time.

10) Don’t forget that others will form an opinion of you from your interactions. Treat everyone you meet with respect and don’t make negative comments about other people or your competition.

In today’s technological times, it is also possible to build a large network of people via your computer. Here are five top tips to help you use the internet successfully for networking purposes:

1. Don’t mix business and pleasure. Be careful about the way you use your business networking sites (for example, LinkedIn) as opposed to the way you use your social networking sites (for example, Facebook). If possible, keep business and pleasure completely separate online – don’t invite professional contacts to link with you on social networking sites, and vice versa. The last thing you really want is your professional contacts to be reading all about how you got a bit tipsy at the weekend, or your poorly dog needing to be taken to the vets!!

2. Take the time to look up old contacts. By adding just one contact to your online network, you will often gain access to hundreds more people who are interested in a similar vein of work, or who have professional skills that may be useful to you. Take the time and trouble to look up people you haven’t contacted in a while, and make use not only of their skills, but also of the skills of the people they network with.

3. Be careful how you come across. Remember that the written word does not have the advantage of body language to emphasise its true meaning. Words can easily be misunderstood across a computer screen, so if in doubt, leave it out!

4. Think what your legacy will be. Where as the spoken word is gone the moment it has been said, the written word has a much more lasting legacy. Never type anything out in temper, as it may be difficult to retract it, by which point the damage is already done. Be polite, courteous and professional at all times.

5. Beware of addiction! Networking sites can be incredibly time-consuming. Whilst they are a very important and useful resource, stay aware of how much time you spend using them, and don’t let this become proportionally imbalanced to the amount of work you generate from networking in this way.

Finally, it is vital to follow up those whom you have met for the first time on a face to face basis. Send them a simple ‘It was nice to meet you’ message that is personalised to them. Why should you do this? Well, marketing professionals claim that we need to be exposed to a product or service between 5-6 times before we remember and recognise it, and the same can probably be applied to people!